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I am my own person, I do not tolerate or allow others to dictate or impose their standards upon me, and I allow them the room to set their own standards for themselves. They are responsible for their own life and actions, and have the right to that, as long as that doesn't infringe upon the rights others to the same.

Ok.., I am well over the age of accountability. In some places that is 16, others 18, but for the majority it is 21..., trust me I have reached and surpassed all of these. But details beyond that aren't necessary for people who do not know me. Its not otherwise necessary to continue focusing on that detail. If anyone has a problem, either personal or community oriented, I will say, its time you got over it. If I ask to join a community, I meet the minimum requirements to do so..., if they do not allow me membership, refer back to the previous paragraph and get over it. I do not, will not, live my life according to the dictates and standards imposed by others if those dictates and standards would in any way seek to control and compromise my right to my own. I give you room..., and I will not tolerate not being allowed my own.

I am like a mirror...,whatever you send out to me..., I reserve the right to reflect 'same' right back at you. Respect and you will get respect, show disrespect..., would it surprise you if you got any different back?! In most cases..., I'd never lower myself to reflect such equivalent behavior. ie..., GROW UP!
My friends would (and have) tell you, I am straight up, I think before I speak and I tell it how it is. If I don't agree and don't say anything.., its because you have the right to your position..., and Im sensitive to others 'rights', until you start imposing that on others in a dictating fashion.

With all that said:
Its not good to be someone who toots their own horn. That means, Im a little biased in this area so anything I would say would be well, biased. I need someone else to write this: Kind of like when other people who know you very well, your best friend and best critic describe you to other people when your not around. Thats always a jolt of reality. You know why? Because our preception / perspective of ourselves is not always accurate. In closing, if we could see ourselves through the eyes and ears of those around us for a week or a month, we'd probably be very shocked at who we actually are. I hope in the end I come close to being the person G-d intended me to become. Shalom HaTikva, Dacvidanya.

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